In the process of interpersonal communication, giving gifts to each other is a way to increase feelings and enhance friendship.
Giving gifts can be a joy. It allows us to carefully consider the interests, personalities and needs of relatives and friends. We can imagine what others would like.
No matter who the gift is given, the person who gave it will choose the gift carefully. When a gift is given to the other party, when the recipient feels the beauty of the gift, the meaning of the gift is given. Therefore, many aspects must be considered when giving gifts.
Choosing a gift is the correct expression of the meaning of gift giving. Choose gifts according to your purpose. When choosing a gift, in addition to adapting to your own purpose, you must also study the needs of the recipient in advance. After all, you must choose the gift you want to give to each other. No matter how suitable the gift is, if the other party does not like it, the meaning of the gift cannot be expressed correctly.
The biggest mistake people make when giving gifts is to buy what they want, not what the recipient wants. For example, if your friend really likes simple home decorations, but you bought him a gorgeous set of home decorations because you think it looks good to him, then this is not the most thoughtful thing.
You can adjust according to your beliefs, but don't completely forget the other person's preferences. For example: if your friend likes steak dinner very much and you are a vegetarian, then you don’t have to order meat from the exquisite shipping catalog. Instead, you can buy her a set of tableware (which can perfectly display the food), give her a gift certificate for her favorite restaurant, a cookbook that includes her favorite food recipes, or a selection of gourmet spices.
For different recipients, the choice of gifts should be treated differently. Generally speaking, for a friend who is not wealthy, it is best to be economical. For example, you can give him some practical tableware. For a wealthy friend, it is best to be more refined, and you can consider giving him some home decorations or handicrafts; For the lover, you can make some souvenir cups or photo frames for her.. For close friends, to be interesting, you can give away some cartoons or exquisite or simple outdoor flower pots; for the elderly, it is best to be practical, and you can give him some gardening supplies. For the child, it is best to be novel and give him some cute little toys. If you are a friend who has just moved, you can give away some home decorations, such as vases; if it is a holiday, you can give away various products related to the holiday.
While givers thought spending more conveyed more thoughtfulness, receivers didn’t associate the price with their level of appreciation.
Gifts are not based on price. Those whocarefully prepare gifts, their gifts will never disappoint.
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